The first sentence in the Three-character Classic is "beginning with nature, nature is good". Nowadays, no matter how old a child or an adult, it can be almost memorized. But how many people can do it? With the progress of society, many families have also developed rapidly. However, behind this gorgeous luxury, it is a fact that countless families dare not face.
School violence is a word we often hear, but the meaning of this word is not understood by everyone. In life, we often think that campus violence will only occur in high schools and universities, but we do not know that the situation of school violence in elementary and junior high schools has already far surpassed that in high schools and colleges.
Most of the real reasons behind school violence come from family education. Some children are accustomed to "dominate the king" in their homes, so that they still think they are "king" at school.
Some time ago, a 13-year-old boy in Dalian brutally killed a 10-year-old girl. According to police investigations, it was discovered that the boy had followed other women many times before, but the parents of the little boy disagreed. . Although the boy was taken up and raised afterwards, it is not difficult to find out that family education is very important for the growth of the child, especially doting.
When the so-called habitual child becomes doting, the education of parents is already on the table. Family education is actually not only educating children, but also educating ourselves
In today's society, most families are only children, and the benefit of one child is that they can get the care of both families. And the families of both sides have no reservation about their children. Both grandma and grandmother are meticulous.
Even small things need to be used to children, but as the saying goes, everything must have a degree. If you are just used to children, it is no different from doting.
Children are held in their palms at home. Even if the child makes a mistake, parents dare not scold. Faced with such a family situation, children can easily form a very arrogant character. As long as there is a little unhappy thing, it is likely to make a big noise, and parents can only compromise with their children.
The usual spoiling of children is not good for their future
There was a passage on the Internet that was particularly popular: "Your parents are still alive, but you show off poetry and the distance." This sentence hurts the true heart of many children. The children who have bright and beautiful faces are, in fact, behind them, the hard money made by the hard work of countless parents. However, the root cause of these problems is more or less inseparable from the child, but the root cause of the problems is actually the doting of parents.
When you spend thousands of dollars on your child's shoes, you are wearing second-hand shoes that cost dozens of dollars on the roadside.